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Families are Forever (or Is there laundry in heaven?)

September 13, 2011 by Montserrat {Cranial Hiccups} 26 Comments

Great Blog Hop yesterday! It will be open all week so you can still write your posts about a family mission statement or about any part of The Family Proclamation and link up. The next blog hop is this Thursday: Family Proclamation Photo Essay. Just show us several photos of your family with captions taken from The Family: A Proclamation to the World.  Take a look at last year’s photo essay blog hop for ideas.

Lovely Tonya is our next guest blogger. I’ll let her introduce herself.
I grew up in Colorado and have spent the past 18 years married to a pretty incredible guy (ManOfTheHouse) who manages to tolerate my snarky sense of humor and has passed on only his most desirable traits to our children.  Well, except those crooked teeth… can’t win ‘em all!  The kids are now aged 7-16, so obviously the family picture needs to be updated soon!  I blog about whatever strikes me as funny at www.moreinfothanyouwanted.blogspot.com and about the books I read at www.whatallthekidsarereading.blogspot.com .  The rest of the time I run around between band practices, scouts, YW, dance classes, concerts, and whatever other nonsense my children decide to get themselves involved in this week 🙂 

 

The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave.
Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.
Hey, I’m no scriptorian… I’m just your average Joe (well, maybe Jane) when it comes to church type stuff… and frankly, I think that’s just fine.  Any of my regular blog readers know that I have a rule about life:  If it’s funny, I’ll do it.  So of course this particular piece of the proclamation brings to mind something funny… maybe you saw the movie “God’s Army”?   Well, there’s a great scene (which for the life of me I couldn’t locate online to link up) where the missionaries are going house to house and enduring a lot of door-slamming… but they get a chance to tell one father a little bit about the church and how our families can be together forever… the rather exhausted looking father looks around him at the messy, screaming, hyper kids and tells the elders  that they really don’t have anything he’s interested in.  That cracks me up every time!
Don’t ask me what the rest of the movie was about… I think it ended up being sad… I don’t do sad really well…
Hey, that’s IT… that’s ExAcTlY what this section is for me… my reason to not “do sad”…  
We’ve all experienced loss… I certainly don’t have a corner on the grief market – and no worries, I’m not going to tell a tear jerker of a story.  The fact remains that I’ve lost a number of people in my life… Grandparents, siblings, friends, a child… and although I don’t do sad… I apparently do a very convincing imitation of sad… because there were plenty of tears. Despite all that – in my moments of despair – I was able to hold on to the truths I’ve been taught.  I was able to find comfort in the plan of happiness and know that this earth life wasn’t all there was.  Comfort feels a WHOLE lot better than crying so much you run out of tears.  (Okay FINE, I admit it… I still cry… I cry a lot… hey, I might be enlightened but I’m still human!) 
I cling to my comfort – I cling to these truths – and they get me through each day.  I have five children in my home now and sometimes I feel like that exhausted Dad in the movie…  sometimes the thought of “forever” just conjures up images of folding laundry forever… or my kids complaining about what I made for dinner… forever…   but truly, I can’t imagine not wanting to share forever with these people who sometimes drive me crazy.
Maybe it’s because I refuse to believe that Heaven will have laundry?
Or maybe it’s because I have a perfect marriage (pfffft!) and sweet, wonderful, innocent children?  (bwahahaha… oh sorry) 
Here’s a little truth for you:  My marriage isn’t all candlelight and roses… and my children occasionally bicker… and kick… and spit… and yell… but because I love them enough I still want them by my side. I want us all to make the choices in life that will allow us to be an eternal family… all of us.
Without the laundry I’m predicting a lot less bickering.
Thanks, Tonya! You’ve reminded us that though we lose loved ones in this earthly life we do NOT lose them eternally.


Don’t forget to visit The Red Headed Hostess, Welcome to the Madness, and We Talk of Christ today to see what wonderful goodness they have about the Family Proclamation!

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  1. michelle says

    September 13, 2011 at 1:04 am

    That scene is one that sticks in my mind, too.

    I think glimpses of forever come in the sweet moments, that can make the harder moments seem more do-able. The sweetness gives perspective for what eternity can feel like.

    p.s. I think crying is totally ok. Humor is good, but so is some of the other emotion that comes with this mortal experience.

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  2. Heather says

    September 13, 2011 at 6:02 am

    I’m so thankful that we know our family is eternal! Thanks for your post today 🙂

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  3. JRoberts says

    September 13, 2011 at 6:45 am

    in our family we have a hard time taking life to seriously as well…

    Isn’t the reunion at the end of it all going to be great?! I look forward to the joy that we will have as we each get to be together for ETERNITY! Thank you for you post today.

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  4. Amy says

    September 13, 2011 at 6:57 am

    I’m so thankful to know that families are eternal. It makes losing grandparents and others so much easier to think that it’s just a temporary separation. I think we all have those days when we wonder if we really want our family with us forever. Thankfully the good times are more plentiful! 🙂

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  5. Carolyn says

    September 13, 2011 at 7:03 am

    Knowing that families are eternal gets me through every day. Thanks for you blog

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  6. Carrie says

    September 13, 2011 at 7:19 am

    What a great post!!! I can’t wait to check out your blog.

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  7. Laura@livingabigstory says

    September 13, 2011 at 7:21 am

    Thanks so much for the perspective you give in this post — life is hard, but it’s no reason to be sad 🙂

    Looking forward to checking out your blog now…

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  8. Tracy says

    September 13, 2011 at 9:10 am

    Your sense of humor made me smile. That’s how we deal around here most of the time — handle everything with a smile somewhere in the mix. Thanks for sharing!

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  9. Jenifer says

    September 13, 2011 at 9:12 am

    what a wonderful testimony!! Humor is the best way to heal and deal with life’s troubles.

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  10. homeblessings says

    September 13, 2011 at 9:16 am

    That’s my favorite part of the movie too and the only part I remember about it.

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  11. Becky Rose says

    September 13, 2011 at 9:39 am

    Beautiful post. Love the humor behind the grief. Love that she cries and still laughs too! I hope heavenly Father sends her blessings her way for sharing her. You never know when you might bless someone’s life by what you say!

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  12. Julie says

    September 13, 2011 at 9:51 am

    Thank you for your post. It’s a good perspective to have.

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  13. Pingela says

    September 13, 2011 at 10:37 am

    Laugher goes a long ways. My husband has cancer and at the last appointment his Dr told him to keep up with is positive attitude and good humor. He said “it’s working good for you.” They thought that he would be in the hospital by now fighting for his life, but he is doing better than what they predicted. If his blood values continue to drop in the fashion they have been he could have a couple more years left. I am grateful to have the knowledge of the gospel in my life it helps us to focus on the things that are important and to find peace and joy in our daily lives. Happiness and Laugher heals.

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  14. Curls says

    September 13, 2011 at 11:12 am

    This knowledge is SO important to me. When I was struggling with my testimony this truth kept me going.

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  15. Cardon Times says

    September 13, 2011 at 1:20 pm

    I think I need to lighten up more and not be so serious! I;m a work-in-progress!

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  16. Kristin says

    September 13, 2011 at 1:32 pm

    I love your “I might be enlightened but I’m still human!)” comment! Thank you for sharing and putting such a positive spin on it.

    We, my family and I, went through a two year span where we had 6 if our loved ones leave this mortality, 3 being parents. It was a tough time but I am so grateful for the comforter and the knowledge that families are eternal.

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  17. Wendy says

    September 13, 2011 at 3:37 pm

    I’m learning about being real in my writing and life and laughing at myself.

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  18. L.C. says

    September 13, 2011 at 4:51 pm

    Thank you for your post. My Father passed away a year ago and I am excited to do his temple work!

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  19. Deirdre says

    September 13, 2011 at 5:25 pm

    Lovely post. I’d gladly take laundry in heaven rather than, say, bathroom cleaning. Oh, please tell me that Heaven has self cleaning baths. Or, better, that angels have no need of baths….

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  20. Richelle says

    September 13, 2011 at 5:28 pm

    Love your perspective. Going through trials it is sometimes hard to remember to have that eternal perspective, but that is what pulls us through.

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  21. LeAnn says

    September 13, 2011 at 7:50 pm

    Our goal as a family is to have No Empty Chairs in the Celestial Kingdom. I enjoyed the thoughts in the post today. Life should be fun and filled with joy!
    Keep on enjoying the moments!

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  22. TisforTonya says

    September 13, 2011 at 8:00 pm

    Thank you all for your comments – I need to run around and visit everyone now!!!

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  23. McMullin's says

    September 14, 2011 at 1:28 am

    Thanks for your post. I’m with you on Heaven having no laundry. I love knowing as crazy as they drive me sometimes that I have an eternal family

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  24. Kristin says

    September 14, 2011 at 8:36 am

    It can be hard to move from the “right now” picture to the “eternal” picture, when you’re in the middle of the muck. Thank you for this!

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  25. JT42 says

    September 14, 2011 at 10:38 pm

    perfect post for today. thank you.

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  26. kcatwoman says

    September 18, 2011 at 3:11 am

    what a funny title..

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